Reducing Shyness faster and easily
Motivate -Part 1
1.Never say you are shy
Never say yourself or others that you are shy since it gradually increases your shyness,even if you are shy tell others that you are frank.If you say so then the people with whom you are talking would obviously think that you are frank which even makes them feel like oh he/she is frank so even i can talk frankly and ask or talk with him/her about whatever I want.If you say yourself that you are shy since it is even scientifically proved that thinking so makes your mind think that you are shy which gradually increases your shyness.So make yourself and others feel that you are frank and you may see change in yourself within some days after applying it in your real life.
2.Embrace Rejection
You feel shy to speak in front of many people since you think that you can't perform well or you would be a joke for them?You can't talk to someone because you feel that you may have bad image in their eyes?These are the big mistake that you are doing,it won't decrease your shyness but rather than decreasing it would obviously increase your shyness. Ok let me give you an example so that you could understand it well if politicians would not stand to get votes than how would they win the election.To win the election they need to stand to get votes,they also have fear that they may not win the election but even if they lose they try again in the next election.So try to speak frankly if you become joke then see the mistakes what you have made as we all learn from mistakes so do mistake to learn from it.Every expert was once a beginner so begin to accept failure and rejections and be expert in accepting them and decreasing shyness.
3.Decide and Act
If you decided to apply these steps in your life but you didn't did/didn't act to take action on these steps in your practical life then how would you overcome your shyness?So just feel comfortable and make your mind feel that these steps would change your life.You feel shy to do a phone call?You feel shy to talk with your relatives?if so then prepare conversation so that you can talk more easily.Many people in this world want the person who cares for them and you are missing those persons because of your shyness.If people don't start the conversation then you could probably start.Think about a very small child he used to be joke when the child was small but did the child stop acting as a joker? probably no because he/she doesn't has shyness.If you are in a bus stand talk to the people over there,if in hotel then talk to the people over there.Wherever you are just start the conversation with people,I know that it would be hard for you at first but even a cycle rider didn't knew how to ride cycle at first,he fell and learned on how to ride a cycle.So many obstacles would come just try to face them and those obstacles would decrease your shyness.
you try these steps then after reducing your shyness who knows you may even be very successful person.
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